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ひとかいさせないように、はんろんもせず、ぶんかいつただまいると、あいあなたかいするチャンスうしなたがぶんらしくつきあうことできなくなるでしょう。

もちろんあいぶんかんがひょうげんしてよいのでそこで葛藤かっとう(注)ことあります

ただ葛藤かっとうちがあきことおやじょうせんせいけんえんたのすると、そのなにごとなくすすかもしれませんが、かいうえ人間関係にんげんかんけいつくいくことなります

ひらのりアサーションにゅうもんぶんあいたいせつするひょうげんほうによる

ちゅう葛藤かっとうここでは、たいりつ

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Vocabulary1 words
  • 対立たいりつ
    • ·confrontation; opposition; antagonism
    N2
Other levels44 words
  • ひと
    • ·person; someone; somebody
    • ·human beings; mankind; man; people; humans
    • ·human (Homo sapiens)
    • ·(other) people; others
    • ·character; personality; nature
    • ·capable person; competent person; suitable person; right person
    • ·adult; grown-up
    • ·I; me; one
    N5
  • するAs it appears here: させない
    • ·to do; to carry out; to perform
    • ·to cause to become; to make (into); to turn (into)
    • ·to serve as; to act as; to work as
    • ·to wear (clothes, a facial expression, etc.)
    • ·to judge as being; to view as being; to think of as; to treat as; to use as
    • ·to decide on; to choose
    • ·to be sensed (of a smell, noise, etc.)
    • ·to be (in a state, condition, etc.)
    • ·to be worth; to cost
    • ·to pass (of time); to elapse
    • ·to place, or raise, person A to a post or status B
    • ·to transform A to B; to make A into B; to exchange A for B
    • ·to make use of A for B; to view A as B; to handle A as if it were B
    • ·to feel A about B
    • ·verbalizing suffix (applies to nouns noted in this dictionary with the part of speech "vs")
    • ·creates a humble verb (after a noun prefixed with "o" or "go")
    • ·to be just about to; to be just starting to; to try to; to attempt to
    N5
  • するAs it appears here:
    • ·to do; to carry out; to perform
    • ·to cause to become; to make (into); to turn (into)
    • ·to serve as; to act as; to work as
    • ·to wear (clothes, a facial expression, etc.)
    • ·to judge as being; to view as being; to think of as; to treat as; to use as
    • ·to decide on; to choose
    • ·to be sensed (of a smell, noise, etc.)
    • ·to be (in a state, condition, etc.)
    • ·to be worth; to cost
    • ·to pass (of time); to elapse
    • ·to place, or raise, person A to a post or status B
    • ·to transform A to B; to make A into B; to exchange A for B
    • ·to make use of A for B; to view A as B; to handle A as if it were B
    • ·to feel A about B
    • ·verbalizing suffix (applies to nouns noted in this dictionary with the part of speech "vs")
    • ·creates a humble verb (after a noun prefixed with "o" or "go")
    • ·to be just about to; to be just starting to; to try to; to attempt to
    N5
  • 自分じぶん
    • ·myself; yourself; oneself; himself; herself
    • ·I; me
    • ·you
    N5
  • あなた
    • ·you
    • ·dear; honey
    N5
  • する
    • ·to do; to carry out; to perform
    • ·to cause to become; to make (into); to turn (into)
    • ·to serve as; to act as; to work as
    • ·to wear (clothes, a facial expression, etc.)
    • ·to judge as being; to view as being; to think of as; to treat as; to use as
    • ·to decide on; to choose
    • ·to be sensed (of a smell, noise, etc.)
    • ·to be (in a state, condition, etc.)
    • ·to be worth; to cost
    • ·to pass (of time); to elapse
    • ·to place, or raise, person A to a post or status B
    • ·to transform A to B; to make A into B; to exchange A for B
    • ·to make use of A for B; to view A as B; to handle A as if it were B
    • ·to feel A about B
    • ·verbalizing suffix (applies to nouns noted in this dictionary with the part of speech "vs")
    • ·creates a humble verb (after a noun prefixed with "o" or "go")
    • ·to be just about to; to be just starting to; to try to; to attempt to
    N5
  • できるAs it appears here: できなく
    • ·to be able to do; to be possible; to be permitted (to do)
    • ·to be good at; to do well; to be proficient (in); to be capable
    • ·to come into existence; to form; to appear; to come up (of a matter); to be born; to make (a friend); to get (a girlfriend, free time, etc.)
    • ·to be made; to be built; to be constructed; to be formed; to be established; to be set up
    • ·to be finished; to be completed; to be done; to be ready
    • ·to grow (of a crop); to be produced
    • ·to be mature and well-balanced; to be of fine character
    • ·to be by nature; to be born ...
    • ·to become (sexually) involved (with); to become intimate (with); to take up (with someone)
    • ·to get pregnant
    N5
  • なる
    • ·to become; to get; to grow; to turn; to reach; to attain
    • ·to result in; to turn out; to end up; to prove (to be)
    • ·to consist of; to be composed of; to be made up of
    • ·to be completed; to be realized; to succeed; to be attained; to be accomplished
    • ·to change (into); to turn (into); to transform
    • ·to come (to do); to begin (to do); to grow (to do)
    • ·to come to; to amount to; to add up to; to make
    • ·to play (the part of); to act as
    • ·to be used for; to be useful for; to serve as
    • ·to be promoted
    • ·to do ...
    N5
  • するAs it appears here: して
    • ·to do; to carry out; to perform
    • ·to cause to become; to make (into); to turn (into)
    • ·to serve as; to act as; to work as
    • ·to wear (clothes, a facial expression, etc.)
    • ·to judge as being; to view as being; to think of as; to treat as; to use as
    • ·to decide on; to choose
    • ·to be sensed (of a smell, noise, etc.)
    • ·to be (in a state, condition, etc.)
    • ·to be worth; to cost
    • ·to pass (of time); to elapse
    • ·to place, or raise, person A to a post or status B
    • ·to transform A to B; to make A into B; to exchange A for B
    • ·to make use of A for B; to view A as B; to handle A as if it were B
    • ·to feel A about B
    • ·verbalizing suffix (applies to nouns noted in this dictionary with the part of speech "vs")
    • ·creates a humble verb (after a noun prefixed with "o" or "go")
    • ·to be just about to; to be just starting to; to try to; to attempt to
    N5
  • よい
    • ·good; excellent; fine; nice; pleasant; agreeable
    • ·sufficient; enough; ready; prepared
    • ·profitable (deal, business offer, etc.); beneficial
    • ·OK; all right; fine; no problem
    • ·easy to ...
    N5
  • 起きるおきる
    • ·to get up; to rise; to blaze up (fire)
    • ·to wake up; to be awake; to stay awake
    • ·to occur (usu. of unfavourable incidents); to happen; to take place
    N5
  • あるAs it appears here: あります
    • ·to be; to exist; to live
    • ·to have
    • ·to be located
    • ·to be equipped with
    • ·to happen; to come about
    • ·to exist (in a completed state); to be (something unchanged in its current state)
    N5
  • 先生せんせい
    • ·teacher; instructor; master
    • ·sensei; (expl.) title or form of address for a teacher, master, doctor, lawyer, etc.
    • ·(expl.) intimate or teasing form of address
    • ·one's elder
    N5
  • 言ういうAs it appears here: 言わなかったり
    • ·to say; to utter; to declare
    • ·to name; to call
    • ·to go (e.g. "the alarm went ping"); to make a noise
    N5
  • その
    • ·that; the
    • ·part (as in "part two")
    • ·um ...; er ...; uh ...
    N5
  • うえ
    • ·above; over; up
    • ·top; summit; upper part; head (e.g. of a staircase)
    • ·surface; on (top of)
    • ·the above (in a piece of writing); earlier part
    • ·superior; better; higher (position, rank, etc.); upper (class)
    • ·elder; older; senior
    • ·with respect to ...; in terms of; as far as ... is concerned; when (e.g. drunk)
    • ·besides ...; in addition to ...; on top of ...; as well as ...
    • ·after ...; upon ...; on ...; with (e.g. full awareness); as a result of ...
    • ·since ...; now that ...; because ...
    • ·honorable; venerable; dear
    • ·emperor; sovereign; shogun; daimyo
    N5
  • 作るつくるAs it appears here: 作られて
    • ·to make; to produce; to manufacture; to build; to construct
    • ·to prepare (food); to brew (alcohol)
    • ·to raise; to grow; to cultivate; to train
    • ·to till
    • ·to draw up (a document); to make out; to prepare; to write
    • ·to create (an artistic work, etc.); to compose
    • ·to coin (a phrase); to organize; to organise; to establish; to found
    • ·to have (a child)
    • ·to make up (one's face, etc.)
    • ·to fabricate (an excuse, etc.)
    • ·to give a (false) appearance; to feign (a smile, etc.); to put on a show of emotion
    • ·to form (a line, etc.)
    • ·to set (a record)
    • ·to commit (a sin, etc.)
    N5
  • なるAs it appears here: なります
    • ·to become; to get; to grow; to turn; to reach; to attain
    • ·to result in; to turn out; to end up; to prove (to be)
    • ·to consist of; to be composed of; to be made up of
    • ·to be completed; to be realized; to succeed; to be attained; to be accomplished
    • ·to change (into); to turn (into); to transform
    • ·to come (to do); to begin (to do); to grow (to do)
    • ·to come to; to amount to; to add up to; to make
    • ·to play (the part of); to act as
    • ·to be used for; to be useful for; to serve as
    • ·to be promoted
    • ·to do ...
    N5
  • ここ
    • ·here; this place
    • ·this point; here; now
    • ·these past ... (e.g. three years); these last ...
    • ·the next ... (e.g. few days); these next ...
    N5
  • 気持ちきもち
    • ·feeling; sensation; mood; state of mind
    • ·preparedness; readiness; attitude
    • ·thought; sentiment; consideration; solicitude; gratitude
    • ·slightly; a bit; a little
    N4
  • 伝えるつたえるAs it appears here: 伝えないで
    • ·to convey; to report; to transmit; to communicate; to tell; to impart; to propagate; to teach; to bequeath
    N4
  • おや
    • ·parent; parents; mother and father
    • ·dealer; banker
    • ·founder; inventor
    • ·(pet) owner
    • ·key; parent (organization); main
    • ·ancestor; forefather
    N4
  • 意見いけん
    • ·opinion; view; comment
    • ·scolding; reprimand; rebuke; admonition; cautioning; warning
    N4
  • 進むすすむ
    • ·to advance; to go forward
    • ·to precede; to go ahead (of)
    • ·to make progress; to improve
    • ·to deepen; to heighten
    • ·to be fast (of a clock); to be ahead
    • ·to do of one's own free will
    N4
  • よう
    • ·appearing ...; looking ...
    • ·way to ...; method of ...ing
    • ·form; style; design
    • ·like; similar to
    • ·thing (thought or spoken)
    N3
  • 黙るだまるAs it appears here: 黙って
    • ·to be silent; to say nothing
    N3
  • 相手あいて
    • ·companion; partner; company
    • ·other party; addressee; counterparty
    • ·opponent (sports, etc.)
    N3
  • 理解りかい
    • ·understanding; comprehension; appreciation
    • ·sympathy
    N3
  • 失ううしなうAs it appears here: 失い
    • ·to lose
    • ·to miss (a chance, opportunity)
    • ·to lose (a loved one); to be bereaved of
    • ·to concede (goals, points, etc.)
    N3
  • こと
    • ·thing; matter
    • ·incident; occurrence; event; something serious; trouble; crisis
    • ·circumstances; situation; state of affairs
    • ·work; business; affair
    • ·after an inflectable word, creates a noun phrase indicating something the speaker does not feel close to
    • ·nominalizing suffix
    • ·pretending to ...; playing make-believe ...
    • ·alias; also known as; otherwise known as; or
    • ·necessity; need
    • ·you should ...; I advise that you ...; it's important to ...
    N3
  • もちろん
    • ·of course; certainly; naturally
    N3
  • 考えかんがえ
    • ·thinking; thought; view; opinion; concept
    • ·idea; notion; imagination
    • ·intention; plan; design
    • ·consideration; judgement; deliberation; reflection
    • ·wish; hope; expectation
    N3
  • 表現ひょうげん
    • ·expression; representation; description
    • ·representation (of a group)
    N3
  • そこで
    • ·so; accordingly; now; then; thereupon; therefore
    N3
  • ただ
    • ·ordinary; common; usual
    • ·free of charge
    • ·unaffected; as is; safe
    • ·only; merely; just; simply
    • ·but; however; nevertheless
    N3
  • 違いちがい
    • ·difference; distinction; discrepancy
    • ·mistake; error
    N3
  • 避けるさけるAs it appears here: 避けて
    • ·to avoid (physical contact with)
    • ·to avoid (situation); to evade (question, subject); to shirk (one's responsibilities)
    • ·to ward off; to avert
    • ·to put aside; to move out of the way
    N3
  • 頼めるたのめるAs it appears here: 頼めなかったり
    • ·to rely on; to depend on; to count on; to turn to (for help)
    N3
    • ·place; spot; space
    • ·field; discipline; sphere; realm
    • ·occasion; situation
    • ·scene (of a play, movie, etc.)
    • ·session
    • ·field; table; area in which cards are laid out
    • ·round (east, south, etc.)
    • ·field
    • ·field (in Gestalt psychology)
    N3
  • 誤解ごかい
    • ·misunderstanding
    N3
  • ほう
    • ·law; act; principle
    • ·method
    • ·mood
    • ·dharma; law
    N3
  • ちゅう
    • ·annotation; explanatory note; comment
    N3
  • つきあう
    • ·to associate with; to keep company with; to go out with; to go steady with; to get on with
    • ·to go along with; to follow someone's lead; to accompany someone; to compromise
    N1
  • 上司じょうし
    • ·(one's) superior; (one's) boss; the higher-ups
    N1
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Other levels12 patterns

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  • によって/によるN3

    Marks means, cause, passive agent, or a factor something depends on; 'by (means of)', 'due to', 'depending on'.

    (平木典子「アサーション入門-自分も相手も大切にする自己表現法」による

    (Based on Hiraki Noriko, “Introduction to Assertion: A Method of Self-Expression That Values Both Yourself and Others”)

  • ないでN4

    Negative te-form that links a clause — "without doing ~", or a soft "don't ~".

    人を不愉快な気持ちにさせないように、反論もせず、自分の不快な気持ちも伝えないで黙っていると、相手はあなたを理解するチャンスを失い、互いに自分らしくつきあうことができなくなるでしょう。

    If, in order not to make someone feel uncomfortable, you remain silent without objecting or expressing your own discomfort, the other person will lose the chance to understand you, and the two of you will no longer be able to relate to each other as your true selves.

  • らしいN4

    Evidential auxiliary expressing an inference or hearsay from evidence — 'it seems / apparently ~'; also 'typical of, befitting ~'.

    人を不愉快な気持ちにさせないように、反論もせず、自分の不快な気持ちも伝えないで黙っていると、相手はあなたを理解するチャンスを失い、互いに自分らしくつきあうことができなくなるでしょう。

    If, in order not to make someone feel uncomfortable, you remain silent without objecting or expressing your own discomfort, the other person will lose the chance to understand you, and the two of you will no longer be able to relate to each other as your true selves.

  • かもしれないN4

    Expresses possibility or conjecture — 'might', 'maybe', 'perhaps'.

    ただ、葛藤や違いが明らかになることを避けて、親、上司、先生に意見を言わなかったり、支援を頼めなかったりすると、その場は何事もなく進むかもしれませんが、誤解のうえに人間関係が作られていくことになります。

    However, if you avoid making conflicts or differences clear by not expressing your opinions to your parents, supervisors, or teachers, or by being unable to ask them for support, things may proceed without incident at the time, but the relationship will come to be built on misunderstandings.

  • 〜ていくN4

    Marks an action that continues/progresses onward from the present, or is done before moving away — 'to go on doing', 'to do and go'.

    ただ、葛藤や違いが明らかになることを避けて、親、上司、先生に意見を言わなかったり、支援を頼めなかったりすると、その場は何事もなく進むかもしれませんが、誤解のうえに人間関係が作られていくことになります。

    However, if you avoid making conflicts or differences clear by not expressing your opinions to your parents, supervisors, or teachers, or by being unable to ask them for support, things may proceed without incident at the time, but the relationship will come to be built on misunderstandings.

  • ことになるN4

    Expresses that something has been decided or comes about, often through external circumstances rather than the speaker's own will; 'it has been decided that / it turns out that.'

    ただ、葛藤や違いが明らかになることを避けて、親、上司、先生に意見を言わなかったり、支援を頼めなかったりすると、その場は何事もなく進むかもしれませんが、誤解のうえに人間関係が作られていくことになります。

    However, if you avoid making conflicts or differences clear by not expressing your opinions to your parents, supervisors, or teachers, or by being unable to ask them for support, things may proceed without incident at the time, but the relationship will come to be built on misunderstandings.

  • にするN52 times in this passage

    To decide on or turn something into a given state or choice, 'to make it ~ / to go with ~.'

    人を不愉快な気持ちにさせないように、反論もせず、自分の不快な気持ちも伝えないで黙っていると、相手はあなたを理解するチャンスを失い、互いに自分らしくつきあうことができなくなるでしょう。

    If, in order not to make someone feel uncomfortable, you remain silent without objecting or expressing your own discomfort, the other person will lose the chance to understand you, and the two of you will no longer be able to relate to each other as your true selves.

  • 〜ているN5

    Describes an action in progress or the state that remains after an action happened — “is doing” or “is in the state of having done”.

    人を不愉快な気持ちにさせないように、反論もせず、自分の不快な気持ちも伝えないで黙っていると、相手はあなたを理解するチャンスを失い、互いに自分らしくつきあうことができなくなるでしょう。

    If, in order not to make someone feel uncomfortable, you remain silent without objecting or expressing your own discomfort, the other person will lose the chance to understand you, and the two of you will no longer be able to relate to each other as your true selves.

  • 〜ことができるN5

    States that someone is able to do something — “can do” / “is able to do”.

    人を不愉快な気持ちにさせないように、反論もせず、自分の不快な気持ちも伝えないで黙っていると、相手はあなたを理解するチャンスを失い、互いに自分らしくつきあうことができなくなるでしょう。

    If, in order not to make someone feel uncomfortable, you remain silent without objecting or expressing your own discomfort, the other person will lose the chance to understand you, and the two of you will no longer be able to relate to each other as your true selves.

  • だろうN5

    Presumptive expressing conjecture — 'probably', 'I think', or seeking agreement 'right?'; plain だろう / polite でしょう.

    人を不愉快な気持ちにさせないように、反論もせず、自分の不快な気持ちも伝えないで黙っていると、相手はあなたを理解するチャンスを失い、互いに自分らしくつきあうことができなくなるでしょう

    If, in order not to make someone feel uncomfortable, you remain silent without objecting or expressing your own discomfort, the other person will lose the chance to understand you, and the two of you will no longer be able to relate to each other as your true selves.

  • のでN5

    Gives a reason or cause with a soft, objective/polite nuance — 'because / since'.

    もちろん、相手も自分の気持ちや考えを表現してよいので、そこで葛藤が起きることもあります。

    Of course, the other person is also free to express their feelings and thoughts, so conflicts may arise.

  • 〜たり〜たりN52 times in this passage

    Lists a few representative actions among others done at various times, 'do things like X and Y'.

    ただ、葛藤や違いが明らかになることを避けて、親、上司、先生に意見を言わなかったり、支援を頼めなかったりすると、その場は何事もなく進むかもしれませんが、誤解のうえに人間関係が作られていくことになります。

    However, if you avoid making conflicts or differences clear by not expressing your opinions to your parents, supervisors, or teachers, or by being unable to ask them for support, things may proceed without incident at the time, but the relationship will come to be built on misunderstandings.

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