相手を思いやる気持ち、これも、「あいさつ」の心にちがいありません。
先年、アフリカへ行ったとき、タンザニアで聞いたことですが、現地の人たちが道で知人とあいさつを交わすとき、おたがいに家族の安否をたずねますが、たとえ自分の家族に病人がいても、それを口に出さないのが暗黙のルールになっているのだそうです。相手の気持ちに負担をかけまいとする心からです。
(川崎洋『ことばの力』による)
AI translation, cross-checked between two models.
Consideration for others—this too is surely part of the spirit of “greetings.”
A few years ago, when I went to Africa, I was told in Tanzania that when local people meet acquaintances on the road and exchange greetings, they ask about one another's families, but even if someone in their own family is ill, they do not mention it; this is an unspoken rule. It comes from a desire not to burden the other person's feelings.
(Based on Kawasaki Hiroshi, “The Power of Words”)
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