現代、恋愛は、通常は部分でしか他者とかかわり合いをもたない個人にとって、例外的に全人格と全人格とのぶつかりあいを経験する、特別な関係なのであろうか。それとも、「全人格的」というのは幻想で、恋愛もまた互いに自己のある一面を見せあう、部分的関係の一例か。これはもちろん、そのどちらなのか、という問題ではなく、個々の恋愛はこの振幅のどこかにあるということになるだろう。だが、趨勢(注)としては後者の方へと振れてきているのではないだろうか。
(草柳千早『AERAMooK』1999年7月10日号による)
(注)趨勢:傾向
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In modern times, is romantic love perhaps a special relationship in which individuals, who ordinarily engage with others only partially, exceptionally experience a confrontation between one whole personality and another? Or is the idea of a “whole-person” relationship an illusion, with romantic love itself merely another example of a partial relationship in which each person shows the other only one aspect of the self? Of course, the question is not which of the two it is; rather, each individual romantic relationship lies somewhere along the spectrum between these two extremes. As an overall trend, however, does it not seem to be shifting toward the latter?(注)
(From Kusayanagi Chihaya, AERA Mook, July 10, 1999 issue)
(Note) 趨勢: tendency
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