失敗はすべて、子どもがその後の人生を大過(注)なく生きるための血となり、肉となる。そう思えば、失敗する前に手を出すことがいかに愚かな教育か、わかろうというものです。
ただし、親は常に子どもをそばでしっかり見守っていなければなりません。手は出さないけれど、いつでも危険から救ってやれるよう、待機するのです。そうして、もし子どもが転んでケガをしたら、「ほら、痛いでしょう。ぶつからないように注意するのよ」と教えてやる。そういう姿勢が親に求められるのです。
(大宅映子『親の常識』による)
(注)大過:大きな過ち
AI translation, cross-checked between two models.
Every failure becomes part of a child's very flesh and blood, helping them live the rest of their life without major mistakes.(注) Seen in that light, one can understand just how foolish it is as education to intervene before a child has a chance to fail.
Parents, however, must always stay close and watch their children carefully. They should not intervene, but should remain ready to rescue the child from danger at any time. Then, if the child falls and gets hurt, say, “See, that hurts, doesn't it? You need to be careful not to bump into things,” and teach the child that way. That is the attitude required of parents.
(From Ōya Eiko, “Common Sense for Parents”)
(Note) 大過: a major mistake
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