騙される経験は学校では教えてくれない。だから私たちは、人生のどこかで必ず一度は騙される。学校で教えてくれないので、免疫力(めんえきりょく)がないのだ。場合によっては、大きな痛手を負う(注1)こともある。ないほうがいい騙される経験だが、誰もが一度は通る関門(注2)だ。そういうときには、損をした経験をいい勉強ができたと言い換えましょう。数少ない(注3)経験だからこそ、しっかり教訓(きょうくん)を得てください。騙された金額は、授業料だと考えればいいのだ。そういうふうに受け入れたとき、人生では本当の損はなくなる。
AI translation, cross-checked between two models.
School does not teach us what it is like to be deceived. That is why, at some point in our lives, we are bound to be deceived at least once. Because school does not teach us this, we have no “immunity” to it. Depending on the situation, we may even suffer a serious loss.(注1) Being deceived is an experience we would rather avoid, but it is a hurdle everyone goes through at least once.(注2) When that happens, reframe the experience of losing something by saying, “I was able to learn a valuable lesson.” Precisely because it is an uncommon experience, make sure you learn a lesson from it.(注3) Think of the amount you were cheated out of as tuition. Once you can accept it that way, there will be no true loss in life.
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