好きな人と会話をするのなら、禁句(注)にしたい言葉がある。それは「はい」と「いいえ」だ。例えば、「海外旅行に行ったことある?」という質問に「いいえ」で返してしまうと、終わりだ。別に相手の話に肯定も否定もするな、と言っているわけではない。「はい」と「いいえ」は使わず、別の表現に言い換えてみよう。「海外旅行に行ったことある?」という質問に「行ったことはないけど行ってみたい。一番行ってみたいのは中国。万里の長城を実際に見てみたい」そう言うと、相手は興味を引かれ、会話がさらに続くことだろう。
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When talking with someone you like, there are certain words that I would like to make taboo.(注) They are “yes” and “no.” For example, if someone asks, “Have you ever traveled abroad?” and you simply answer “No,” the conversation ends there. I am not saying that you should neither agree nor disagree with what the other person says. Try avoiding “yes” and “no” and expressing yourself in another way. If asked, “Have you ever traveled abroad?”, you could answer, “I haven’t, but I’d like to. The place I most want to visit is China. I’d like to see the Great Wall with my own eyes.” If you say something like that, the other person will become interested and the conversation will probably continue.
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